Private Coaching for Men Who Feel Disconnected, Overwhelmed, and Detached from Their Purpose.
Reclaim control, clarity, and confidence, in business, life & relationships, without emotional overwhelm or shame.Call: +44 (0) 7886737128
Life feels out of control
- You’re hitting goals in business, but inside you feel numb, hollow, or like something’s missing.
- Your mind never stops, overthinking, what-ifs, guilt, always running.
- You’ve lost connection to who you really are.
- You’re numb in relationships, struggling to show up fully.
- You fear if you slow down, everything collapses.
Our Approach
Grounding & Reset
Calm the internal chaos, create safety in your nervous system
Clarity Discovery
Uncover what’s beneath the noise (beliefs, expectations, identity)
Rebuilding Strategy
Small, actionable alignment steps to reclaim direction
Integration & Strength
embed the shift into daily life so it sticks
Who We Work With
This is for you if you:
• Are a business owner, leader, high achiever, or professional
• Feel you’ve lost your internal compass
• Are good at doing, but struggle just being
• Hide your inner turmoil out of fear
• Want to reclaim confidence, purpose, and alignment, quietly, without drama
This is not for you if you:
• Expect instant fixes or fluff
• Prefer indefinite talking vs structured change
• Are already very clear, grounded, and happy with where you are
The Transformation
• Clarity about purpose, direction, next steps
• Emotional composure, less reactivity, more presence
• Confidence in making tough decisions
• Stronger relationships (able to be seen, express what matters)
• Renewed energy, drive, and authentic alignment
*Rob came to me after his anxiety felt like a heart attack, he was burned out, burying himself in work to avoid his family, disconnected from who he thought he was and frustrated by feeling so out of control. We worked together for three months and he was playing with his children, going on dates with his wife, enjoying work and living life his way.
*Steve told me on our first session “I don’t think this will F***ing work” on the last session, he said (with a smile on his face) “I didn’t think that talking to a young lady would f***ing work but it did, I am there for my wife, I can open up to my children and enjoy my grandchildren now”.
*Names changed for confidentiality
My Story
I was in a place where everything looked great on the outside, success, status, respect. But inside, I felt like I was drowning, disconnected, and constantly switched on. One day I realised the real work wasn’t outside me, it was inside.
Learning became my coping mechanism and I gained qualifications in my determination to change my life
PGCE
MA
Counselling
Child psychology
For three decades I have coached thousands of people from victims of domestic violence to business leaders, doctors and athletes to live their best lives. Taking them from stressed, burnt out and feeling powerless to focussed, driven and happy. Not only do the men win, so do their families.
My Philosophy:
Real change isn’t about emotion alone. It’s about structural internal shifts and steady alignment and action. Real results in real time
Why I Do This:
Because I’ve seen how much pain smart, successful men carry in silence. And I believe they don’t just deserve to survive, they deserve to thrive from the inside out.
Get in touch
Testimonials:
Hayley, you helped me through one of the darkest points in my life and I will forever be grateful for that!! To this day I’ve never met a coach or therapist that has treated me with the same level of empathy and compassion as you did! Thank you for the work you do ❤️” KN
I have a new found confidence and a drive for self improvement. I enjoyed it all, going through the program I learnt a lot about myself and how I think and feel as well as how to accept my feelings for what they are and know that I am fully in control of how those feelings affect me
“Hayley helped me look at all the unresolved life challenges, the grief, the anger, loss, frustration that had built up and become so overwhelming. Initially I was sceptical - I wasn't convinced I needed help.
Life is so much better after working with Hayley, I am so much more resilient. Ordinary life challenges no longer hold me back and there is no longer the overwhelm that keeps me stuck.
Highly recommend her service!” Jo Brianti
I found closure, peace and happiness. I had a few setbacks after the programme and spoke with Hayley and she reminded me to use the coaching method to work through my set back. The programme was Life changing, feeling like I was safe and able to talk through my issues and the support from Hayley was second to none. The anxiety felt prior to the meetings, but that was quickly overcome
“Hayley T Wheeler What you do is simply excellent. You do it with great compassion and dedication and love. It is effective, safe, and ethically informed. Moreover, it is supported by high quality, independent, peer-reviewed evidence, I should know, I managed the evaluation study.
Some people, including certain professionals, may (arrogantly) think that approaches like yours are unsafe, but they base this on little if any real evidence. I imagine that some may see your way as a threat because they lack the insight and empathy needed either to understand it and/or appreciate that there are myriad ways to address mental health difficulties. It took an accumulation of 25 years’ experiences gained in academia, NHS clinical practice, several personal mental crises, and just being human to teach me this.
Keep up the great work! x Andrew Cuthbert
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